္္္္္္ စင္ေပၚ မ ေရာက္နိုင္ေသာ မိခင္မ်ား

မိခင္တိုင္းစင္ေပၚ မ ေရာက္နိုင္ပါ။ အေျကာင္းအရင္းမ်ားစြာရွိသည့္အနက္ ဘဝေပး အေျခအေနေျကာင့္ ဟုေယဘူယ် ျခံဳ ေျပာ လိုပါသည္။ မိခင္တိုင္းမွာဂုဏ္ပုဒ္မ်ားစြာရွိသည္။သူတို ့၏ဂုဏ္ပုဒ္မ်ားမွာ-အနစ္နာခံျခင္း၊ကိုယ္ျခင္းစာနာသနားတတ္ျခင္း၊အခက္အခဲျကံုပါကရုန္းကန္နိုင္ျခင္း --စသျဖင့္ေရတြက္၍
မရ နိုင္ေအာင္မ်ားလွသည္။" ဘဝ"တကၠသိုလ္ မွ ေပးေသာ ပညာမ်ားစြာရိွေသာ္လည္း ဘြဲ ့ဒီဂရီမရရွာ၍၎၊
ေလာကေပတံနွင့္တိုင္းေလ့ရိွေသာစံတစ္ခုျဖစ္သည့္ေငြေျကးမျပည့္စံု၍၎၊စင္ေပၚမေရာက္နိုင္ျကပါ။
စြမ္းအားရွင္မ်ားစြမ္းေဆာင္ရွင္မ်ား၊အသိပညာရွင္မ်ားအတတ္ပညာရွင္မိခင္မ်ားေတြ ့ျမင္သည့္အခါတိုင္း၊၎တို ့
အတြက္ဝမ္းေျမာက္မိသကဲ့သို ့၊ နံနက္အိပ္ရာထဲမွ ျကားရသည့္ "ပဲျပဳတ္"ဟူေသာအသံကိုျကားသည့္ အခါတိုင္းလည္း ေန မင္းနွင့္အျပိဳင္ေပၚထြက္လာေသာသူတို ့၏ စြမ္းအားအလွတရားကို ရင္ထဲမွဂုဏ္ျပဳ မိ သည္။  နီရြန္မီးအလင္းကဲ့သို ့အလင္းေပး‌ေ သာ မိခင္မ်ားစြာရွိသကဲ့သို ့ ဖေယာင္းတိုင္မီးကဲ့သို ့ အလင္း
‌ေ ပး ‌ေ သာ  မိခင္မ်ားလည္း ရွိပါသည္။ ဖေယာင္းတိုင္မွာ အလင္းေပးရင္း သူ ဘ၀ 
‌ေ လာင္ ကၽြမ္းကုန္ဆံုးသကဲ့သို ့မိသားစုအတြက္ အနစ္နာခံေသာ မိခင္မ်ား၏ အလင္းသည္ ေလာကမွထြက္ခြာသြားသည့္တိုင္ မိသားစု၏ ရင္ထဲမွာထာဝရလင္းေနပါသည္။

Father's Day in Ottawa 2014

“ Father’s Day in Ottawa 2014”    

Before the Father’s Day

     I had a secret plan in my heart to celebrate Father’s day in Myanmar in honor of my beloved Dad.  Every year we used to celebrate for him since we were in Naypyitaw.   I‘ve started preparing for this day since January this year. In April, I arranged to go back on the 6th of June.  After all was set, my Dad suddenly fell ill. It was so quick that I could not reach him before his last breath.  In this hard situation, I gave thanks to God for he’s lived until the age of 89years, his eldest daughter (my sister- she is a doctor) looked after him, and I sent my thank you words for  caring and bringing us up to my father before he leaved from the earth .  We arrived back home before his funeral and prepared for his last journey from the earth in Buddhist way and Christian way. My family is Christian and my parents and the rest of my siblings are Buddhists. My Parents have generous hearts on us  believing freedom in faith.  He was passed away on the 3rd of May this year.

On Father’s Day 2014 in Ottawa

     I and my husband were in Revival Church where they used Myanmar language in worship.  I had to gave testimony for the LORD our spiritual father and shared about my Dad in honor of him. Firstly I gave thanks to God for the testimony time on that day and for the LORD has given me strength to stand whilst my knees were weak,my heart was still pain for the lost of my Dad .  I could not stand for sharing about my mother on Mother’s Day since she passed away in 20012. What was difference between the passing of my Dad and my Mom? The way they went to last journey on earth was not quite different, they leaved peacefully. For me I should have prayed to give me strength from God in the time my Mom passed away and gave Him thanks for my Mom. I was cried, therefore Satan could drag my mind easily on those days. This time I gave thanks to God for my Dad. The best way to win the Satan is giving thanks to God in hard time.   
      I would like to share about what my Dad gave us as his heritage.  He always said;
 “ I give you (3) things as my heritage.  They are wisdom, knowledge and good name.”

1.Wisdom  ( A lainmar).  – Every father teaches his children to know what is right and what is wrong. This is a real wisdom from God though they know or not.  Some fathers teach their children with stick but my Dad never taught us with stick.  He sometimes taught me with the words like double edge sword which made me cried. Mostly he taught us in real situation that made us never forgot and never did mistakes. For example, one day he came from office and took us for a walk around 3:00pm.( He was the head of Eastern Hospital in Rangoon.). He pointed to one of the guards of this hospital who was planting vegetables in his small plot under the scorching sun. He said this guard was planting vegetables for his family’s extra income during his day time off. My Dad asked;“ Should you and your friends  plug these plants for fun? “. I realized he heard that I and my friends plugged these plants for playing cooking. We were only eight . We never did it again.

2. Knowledge ( Pyinya). – Every father sends their children to school to get knowledge from school curriculum. When I was young I was weak in maths .My father helped me to do my maths though he came from hospital mid-night emergency operation in Rangoon General Hospital. He was patient with my weakness.

      He taught us not only knowledge from school subjects but also from cartoons and stories.  One of the most I like was from a cartoon story.  It was written by Cartoon U Ba Ka Lay .  There were three cartoon actors in it.  They were children named

  Ko Pyu( means a boy with big eyes),Ma Pyone (Miss smile) and Kywet Phyu Lay 
( little white mouse ).  One day they were playing together. They wanted to eat ice bar and two boys went to buy. Ma Pyone  gave money to them to buy ice bar for her. On their way back Kywet Phyu Lay  ate his own ice bar but Ko Pyu did not eat his ice bar and hold it in his one hand. And the other hand he hold Ma Pyone’s ice bar and he was sucking her ice bar   on the way. When thay arrived back, Ko Pyu gave ice bar the one he ate it (the ice bar of Ma Pyone) on the way   to Ma Pyone.  Ma Pyone said thanks and she ate it. Ko Pyu started to eat his ice bar but it was melted and fell down onto the ground. If he ate his own, it won’t be melted and Ma Pyone’s ice bar may be melted. Now his greed made him empty handed. My Dad taught us lesson for our lives through this story. Greedy makes empty handed.

3. Good name. - He really maintained his good name for our heritage. Wherever we go people loved him and praised his honesty, fairness and his disciplines.  With this article I pay tribute to my Dad and all fathers.

jujulay